Competency to Better Life

 

Do you have the competency to better your daily living and overall humane existence, or do you lack this character? To better personal living you have to discover competence to take charge. In life we have inner coaches, counselors, etc that help us to accomplish things in life. We likewise have helpful authorities in the world who will take the time to help those who find it hard to help self.   If you search, you will find a lot of options and resources available to you.  Sometimes a book or workbook or class will help you.

Competency is earned. An individual with competence will take what they learn and utilize it to solve different states of affairs in their life. A competent individual always sees the new light at the end of every tunnel.

When an individual has competence, he or she feels joyous. A joyous individual will consider every incident, experience and so forth in life as something they may learn from; as well this individual won’t allow bad weigh him or her down. The individual will take the bad; see new light and continuing learning from his or her errors.

You’ll have to learn how to suspend judgments of self and other people. You’re not the Man in control. Only one spiritual being has the right to call judgment down on anybody. Let this Man take the weight on His shoulders. You might need to pray often to cease judging self and other people.

It’s ok to have views, but when you don’t have facts to support your claims, why speak? Too many times individuals suspect, offer opinions, speculate, or jump to conclusions, which has caused major issues in the world. If you don’t have facts behind you, or to support what you say, be quiet. Allow somebody else in the world to make the next error.

If you wish to live happier, you’ll need to build your energy. To build energy you’ll need to eat right, exercise and take great care of you. You’ll need to associate with positive individuals and learn to help others as well as yourself. The more effort you put forth, the more you’ll get back from your efforts.

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Some Reasons Why ELearning Is Becoming Popular

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ELearning refers to electronic learning. It’s a phrase that originated from the old-fashioned learning techniques you would find in school laboratories and workshops. Today, however, it has become a more popular method of learning because of the benefits it offers. These advantages include; cost effectiveness, ease of use, ease of access and the fact that it can be carried out in the home, in the classroom or at work. The main advantages are that it can be easily accessed, it saves time and energy and that learning can be more interactive than passive.

The main reason why online learning is becoming so popular is that it is a much cheaper method than traditional teaching. There are several factors to consider when deciding to do so; however, some of the main factors include; whether it’s for personal or professional use. For example, a professional will require access to material in their field of expertise while a personal user would prefer something simpler and easier. If you’re looking to teach a particular subject to a larger number of people, this can become very time consuming, especially if you want to impart information to students over a period of time.

When it comes to online learning, it’s essential that you are clear about what you wish to achieve. This can often be done by researching and getting in touch with people who have already used the system. This way, you can get a feel for how the system works and where the most important information is located. For example, if you want your system to be used in the workplace, then the information should be easy to locate and accessible by all employees, regardless of their location. On the other hand, if you’re using it for personal use, then you might just be interested in finding out more about how it works.

The next thing you should think about is what your expectations are from the system. You can opt to go for an open system where anyone can access the information, or one that’s closed off to specific individuals or companies. It’s important that you determine what you want before making any decisions on the type of system you wish to use. You will want to get a feel for how the content is presented and read so that you know whether the material is easy to learn.

In addition to this, it’s necessary to decide what the goals are of the eLearning system you’re planning to use. Will it be used in a classroom setting or a training environment? Is there a need for specific information? Will it be used to provide for personal education? Will it be used to help develop a specific skill such as communication or leadership?

The choice of course materials that are used should also be considered carefully. This will depend on whether you’re using them for training or for professional use. While the material should be simple, you still need to ensure that it’s up-to-date and relevant to the subject matter.

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Creative Solutions Using “What If?”

For the most creative solutions you need to get your mind looking in new directions. One of the most systematic ways to do this, is with a list of words, primarily adjectives, to create “what if?” scenarios. The process starts with the question, “what if it was…” and then you insert a word from the list. “It” in the question is the problem you’re working on, or the current solution or situation.

Let’s explain the process with an example or two.

Example one: You have is an unpleasant co-worker. You aren’t sure how to deal with him, so you ask about the problem, “What if it was…” and insert from the list “smaller.” How could you make the problem smaller? Spend less time with that person? Get reassigned?

“What if it was… fun?” makes you wonder if being annoying yourself might keep the other person away from you. “Closer” makes you wonder if this person might be nicer to you if they knew you better. You continue down the list and work with each word a bit to get new ideas, which you will look at more analytically later.

Example two: Your house is too crowded because you’re running your business from it. You ask, “What if it was…” and insert from the word list, “smaller.” Your house is already too small, but could the business be smaller? The word “divided” might give you the idea to keep the business in just one part of the house.

Since most words on the list won’t help, you can go through the irrelevant ones quickly. But don’t automatically dismiss them without a few seconds consideration. “What if it was hopeless?” may seem like a useless question, or it may make you realize that you just can’t keep the business in the house any longer. Moving into a rented office might be the most profitable of your creative solutions.

The Creative Solutions Word List

Feel free to create your own list of words. You’ll want to use adjectives, descriptive phrases, and any words that can change your perspective. Here is a short list to get you started:

What if it was… larger, smaller, farther away, closer, sooner, later, easier, more difficult, higher, fat, rich, short, black, certain, hopeless, newer, boring, casual, subtracted from, cheaper, common, divided, more interesting, extravagant, subtle, or fun?

Just as with most problem solving techniques, it’s important to allow the ideas to flow without judging them initially. You don’t want to stifle the creative process. Take notes, then evaluate your ideas later, when you have a page full of creative solutions.

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4 Things You Should be Focusing on Every Day

Every day our attention is pulled in a million directions. To-do lists, both personal and work, family, friends, and even random errands, take up valuable brain real estate. It can be challenging to cut through the excess and give your attention to what really matters. Keep reading for the four things that you should be giving some attention to every day.

1. On a Goal
You most likely have at least one goal that you are currently working on. Choose one goal to focus on every day. Focusing on a specific goal every day will allow it to stay in the forefront of your mind and ensure that you spend time working on it. Remember that breaking up big goals into smaller steps will allow you to spread the work over time.

2. On the Now
Allowing your mind to dwell on the past is of little use to your current situation. The past is over, and you can’t change it. Focus on what is happening right now in your life, what you need to accomplish, and on the good things you have to reflect on. Keeping your mind present is a better use of your time. If you look in the rear view mirror of your life, you go nowhere. You can’t move ahead looking backward.

3. On the Task at Hand
This is important for all tasks that you must complete, but it can be difficult. Losing yourself to a task is something that typically only happens when you really enjoy what you’re working on. However, with practice, you can learn to tune out distractions and find your flow. If something is really bothering you and stopping you from focusing, find out what it is and deal with it. Unresolved issues take lots of energy away from focus.

4. On the Positive
Don’t let your mind fall down the tunnel of negativity and what-if thoughts. It’s literally a dead-end road that will take you nowhere. Focusing on the positives of a situation and in general, will do two things. First, it will keep your spirits up when times are tough, and you feel like giving up. Second, positive thoughts manifest more positive thoughts, which in and of itself is motivating.

Honing your thoughts in on specific tasks, aspects of life, and what you want out of your future is a process that takes time to work on. Your mind, like any muscle, works best when you train it regularly. Focusing on the items listed above daily will help train your brain to go to those items on its own, eventually turning you into a lean, mean, focusing machine.

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4 Things You Should be Focusing on Every Day as You Homeschool

Every day our attention is pulled in a million directions.   Particularly when you are home schooling, you are thinking about things that need to be accomplished during school, as well as regular household activities such as doing the laundry, and paying bills.  To-do lists, both personal and home-school related, family, friends, and even random errands, take up valuable brain real estate.  And of course, there is the ever present temptation for social media chatter.   It can be challenging to cut through the excess and give your attention to what really matters.  Keep reading for the four things that you should be giving some attention to every day.

1. On a Goal
You most likely have at least one goal that you are currently working on. Choose one goal to focus on every day. Focusing on a specific goal every day will allow it to stay in the forefront of your mind and ensure that you spend time working on it. Remember that breaking up big goals into smaller steps will allow you to spread the work over time.

For example, if your goal is to choose a curriculum, break it down into smaller goals.  Find the top five you have heard about, thought might work, or which have caught your attention for one reason or another.   Then dive into reviews or talking with other home-school moms who have used them.  You will either decide one of the five is right for you, or you might start the process again.  As mentioned in other posts on this blog, getting to be a part of a local homeschooling association can help speed up the decision process.  Moms who are already in the trenches can help you navigate through the process.

2. On the Now
Allowing your mind to dwell on the past is of little use to your current situation. The past is over, and you can’t change it. Focus on what is happening right now in your life, what you need to accomplish, and on the good things you have to reflect on. Keeping your mind present is a better use of your time.  Stay focused on what you need to deal with now, today.  You really can’t afford to sacrifice and ounce of your time to thinking about the past.  Getting through the day, making sure the children stay on track, and also keeping up with the household will take your time, focus, and energy.

3. On the Task at Hand
If there are things that are distracting you from keeping focused on home school related tasks, write down the problems.  Look at ways to resolve them.  Study solutions on your off hours from school, maybe while the children are in bed.  Send them to bed early or let them have a quiet time so you can have a little free time to work through things that might distract you.  That way, you can stay focused during school time. Unresolved issues take lots of energy away from focus.

4. On the Positive
Don’t let your mind fall down the tunnel of negativity and what-if thoughts. It’s literally a dead-end road that will take you nowhere. Focusing on the positives of a situation and in general, will do two things. First, it will keep your spirits up when times are tough, and you feel like giving up. Second, positive thoughts manifest more positive thoughts, which in and of itself is motivating.

Honing your thoughts in on specific tasks, aspects of home schooling, and what you want out of it for you and your children is a process that takes time to work on. Your mind, like any muscle, works best when you train it regularly. Focusing on the items listed above daily will help train your brain to go to those items on its own, eventually turning you into a lean, mean, focusing machine.

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