I can’t alter this
Habits can help or hinder a person. Habits are acquired from training, influences, observance, and practice. People acquire many habits throughout life. Some are useful and helpful. Some are not. Good habits aid a person in attaining goals. To better life, the bad habits have to take a hike.
However, eliminating bad habits isn’t simple, especially if a dependency is involved. It is necessary to learn how to change bad habits. Sometimes there is a dependency on a substance, such as alcohol or drugs. In today’s world, there may be a dependency on social media “likes”. Or, there can be a co-dependency…making your attitude and emotional state dependent on someone else’s response to you.
It seems easier to wander through life making excuses. When a person comes up against something complicated, they may make excuses why they can’t deal with the issue. You have probably heard excuses in the past as this is a common response to difficulties. That fact is, if you want to better your life you need to state, “This is something that blocks me from accomplishment and I choose to change it.”
The first key to success is quit making excuses. Then, you will be in a position to commit to choosing a fresh habit.
Today I’m going to quit judging other people and myself. This is a common error individuals make in the world. They spend time labeling other people and themselves. This gets them nowhere but in a world of chaos.
Do you think negatively along these lines such as…”I can’t alter this. My life is full of bunk; I can’t swing it any longer. Why me?” If you spend your life believing negative and stating negative connotations, attempt changing your ways today. For example, state, “I may change something and I’m going to.” Rather than stating life is full of bunk, accept it as truth yet move forward to make your life better.
Once you begin to make changes to improve your life, begin small. Rather than jumping the gun, take little steps to success. Too many times individuals try to change overnight. This only leads to frustration.
When you’re working to alter your life and habits, make certain you seek support and feedback. You don’t have to walk the road to success alone. Feedback is discovered at your library, the Net, at colleges, etc. Ask somebody you trust to support you and provide you feedback when required as well